Friday, August 14, 2015

There's No Time To Be Sad...You Need To Transform!

by Abeni Bamidele

Just as the butterfly, we have been gifted with intuitive abilities to recognize when change is necessary. As I'm sure you have heard or read time and time again, when you have encountered challenges in your life, it is an opportunity for you to analyze the situation for what it truly is and means and do something valuable, that will change the course of your experiences.

Some things can absolutely not be helped, like when you lose a loved one or friend. Others have financial challenges that they may be dealing with, or perhaps a health condition, that requires on-going treatment.

Whatever the situation  may be, you get a temporary "emotional pass" to react and respond to the situation(s). You may cry, scream, laugh hysterically or be flat out angered and yell, but the fact remains that once you've reacted in such a manner, you're going to have to do something about that situation. So although you are entitled to have that emotional rant, let it not take up too much of your time. There is no time to be sad....you need to transform.

A Butterfly's Story: 6 Characteristics To Successful Living

The butterfly, remembering that it is in its own right an insect, has certain traits/characteristics that can very easily be translated into patterns of behavior that we as humans should relate to; not so much from a biological perspective, but rather translated to how we should live our lives from a psychological perspective :

1. Butterflies are extremely adaptable to their environment, climate and conditions.
2. Their ability to fly enables them to spread.
3. The formulation of their skeletal pattern provides them armor for self-protection.
4. Their small size keeps their demands accommodating and accessible.
5. They have the ability to delay fertilization until conditions are conducive to survival.
6. Butterflies undergo multiple changes (metamorphosis) to facilitate and carry on life.

F. Scott Fitzgerald
So have you seen a butterfly cry? Certainly you haven't. Use this time in your life as an amazing opportunity to start afresh and anew. Take some quiet time out for yourself. You're going to have to ask people to leave you alone for a little while, so that the answers can be revealed to you for the next steps you will need to take in your transformation. Those revelations are your instinctual awakening. It is the direct message given to you from within to propel you to your destiny.

Stay focused.
Stay positive.
Remain steadfast.
Enjoy the ride.

You Are Uniquely And Brilliantly Adorned.

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